Still Becoming

Welcome to Still Becoming, a space where I’m sharing the honest and unpredictable journey of healing. It’s not about quick fixes or perfection but the real moments, big and small, that shape us. Here, I’ll dive into emotions, challenges, and the tools that have helped me grow. Healing is a journey, not a finish line—thanks for walking it with me.

Madeline Madeline

What I Wish I Knew When I Started Healing

First lesson: healing can be all consuming. Once I knew there was “work to do,” I threw myself into it like I was training for the Self-Care Olympics. I became a self-help machine—reading every book, listening to every podcast, filling out every workbook. My mind was a workshop of coping strategies and trauma theories. I ~thought~ that meant I was healing. But looking back, I realize I was more interested in “fixing” myself than actually feeling my way through.

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